One of the great things about living in a media rich
democracy is that people are freely allowed to express their opinions, however
well or ill-informed they may be. Perhaps this is surpassed only by the
facility to help those expressing opinions that they may have misunderstood
something fundamental. The Every Child Leaving Care Matters core group, now
happily swollen to eight individuals, fully accepts Mr Narey’s right to express his views and indeed celebrate the fact that he has done so. Perhaps, though, a
little clarification may help him or others of similar views become better
informed?
Whilst we are most certainly
a group of activists we are by no means political, in fact this campaign is
determinedly apolitical as may be considered to be evidenced by some well
respected parliamentarians supporting our campaign who generally might
naturally move into different lobbies in Westminster at division time. We have not accused “every member” of the
Conservative Party of mendacity. There is a least one among their number who we
and others have (rightly) lauded for his public statements and actions in the
pursuit of equality opportunities for children in residential care with their
peers in foster care. There are others who have chosen to support the campaign
less openly, which is perfectly understandable. Let us be unequivocal we have
no political allegiance or agenda and those we advocate for don’t even have a
vote.
We are actually proud of being activists; we have no
illusions of carrying on the tradition of other more famous and worthy activists
such as the Suffragette movement, Stonewall, the anti-Apartheid supporters but
we can draw inspiration from such magnificent groups in attempt to highlight
and right an injustice. Neither is there anything “lazy’ about us including our
philosophy which, in connection with our campaign is, we feel, unlikely to be
considered as complex or developed an
examination of truth or concepts as perhaps was that of either Nietzsche or
Aquinas, for example. We actually all have ‘day jobs’ with which we progress
unabated devoting our ‘spare time and energy’ to ECLCM because we believe that
we should; it’s really heartening to know that over 5000 people are supporting
us in doing so.
A simple message of what this campaign is about for Mr
Narey or anyone else who is interested may help – although we have tried to be
clear about this before.
We
welcome the government’s proposals in respect of children in foster care
potentially remaining in their placement until the age of 21; this is an
unequivocally good thing. We want the same opportunity to be afforded to
children in residential homes.
Mr
Narey appears to suggest that we may be critical of what the government has
announced as being a “minor development”. Have we said this? No. Have we publicly
welcomed this? Yes.
Mr
Narey appears to defend Mr Timpson, although we feel sure that he can defend
himself, by referencing Mr Timpson’s words “..if I thought that by including
children’s homes in staying put arrangements was the right thing to do at this
juncture, I would do it in a heartbeat..” We have asked to meet with Mr Timpson
so that he can explain to us if not publicly what it is that makes him think it
is not the “right thing to do”. He has not taken up the offer. Why is it not
the right thing to do Mr Timpson? We ask this for ourselves, of course, and
those who tangibly support us but most of all we ask it for the children who we
work with, advocate for, represent or in some of our cases remember being. What
do professionals working with children in children’s home tell them when they
ask “Why are we, why am I different?” We don’t know the answer. We don’t know
what to tell those children. Mr Narey, should Mr Timpson choose to talk through
you we will listen politely to your answer. We do note that you use the word
“we” when referring to the Government so be assured we would accept what you
say as being the government’s view and could at least introduce this to the
public arena for others to judge.
Mr
Narey considers that we are being "inaccurate and unfair" in accusing
ministers of being “uncaring” over their reluctance to afford children in
children’s homes the identical opportunity to those in foster homes. We are not
saying that ministers are “uncaring” per
se, but please help us out Mr Narey, why else are these two groups of
seemingly identical children being treated differently? Surely any parent of
two children would want them to have the same opportunities? If one had two
identical twins with identical ability, aims and aspirations and one chose to
ask one to leave home at eighteen whilst not the other might one be accused of
caring less for one compared to the other? Seems likely to us.
Mr
Narey appears to have an ambivalent opinion of our campaign. On the one hand
accusing us of an attack on the government whilst later dismissing us as an
irrelevance and, we might say, with due respect to all those supportive of our
nation of pet-lovers, appearing to draw a comparison between looked after
children and kittens. He questions what starting a petition has done for the
cause. Well, it was never the intention but it appears to have exercised his mind
somewhat. He should not perhaps, dismiss the fact that an unsupported,
unfinanced, relatively anonymous group of people who have nothing to gain
personally from this campaign have gathered such significant support in such a
short time. If we are not having an impact why does he feel the need to insult,
dismiss and demean our efforts?
Mr
Narey, you are a Government Advisor with, unless we are mistaken, no public
mandate. We are a collective concerned
for the welfare of looked after children in general and in respect of children
who are or will be leaving children’s homes now and in the future. We seek equality
for these children with their peers in foster care. We may in your terms have “resorted
to a petition”; what else are we to do? Nothing? At least that petition has
given us, unlike you, a mandate to ask
questions not only on behalf of all the children who are now and will in the
future be leaving residential care but also over five thousand others.
This is a fantastic response to the article by Mr Narey. We are hearing that much needs to improve in Children's Homes as being one of the milestones to prevention of this extension of care. Young People feeling stable would certainly increase their faith in the system. Having left care at 16 I recognise first hand the challenges that young people have to face. If you have the help & support choice provided it will and can make a huge difference in the outcomes that government seek to improve for looked after children. Surely this should be a starting point and not an after thought.
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